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Why Everything Online Feels Fake Now (and How to Find the Real Stuff Again)

Maya Okonkwo

You've felt it, even if you couldn't name it. You scroll, and something is off. The posts are smoother, faster, more polished than ever, and somehow they say nothing. Article after article that reads like it was assembled rather than written. Images of places that don't exist. Comments that could have come from anyone, or no one.

It has a name now: slop. Low-effort content churned out by machines, at a scale no human could match, built to fill feeds and farm attention. And it's everywhere, because it's cheap to make and it games the same systems that were already designed to keep you scrolling.

Here's why it feels so hollow. For all its flaws, the old internet had a person on the other end. A real human who'd felt something, figured something out, and bothered to share it, badly, honestly, in their own voice. Slop removes the person. It's the shape of sharing with none of the soul. And some part of you can tell, even when you can't say how.

So how do you find the real stuff again? You get deliberate about it.

Follow people, not feeds. Seek out individual humans with a point of view, writers, makers, thinkers who sign their name and stake their reputation on what they say. A real person is accountable in a way a content firehose never is.

Go where the slop isn't. Smaller newsletters. Personal blogs. Niche communities. Actual conversations. The places too small or too human to be worth flooding.

Value effort again. The things that take real time, a considered essay, a handmade thing, a genuine recommendation from someone you trust, are becoming rare, which makes them precious. Reward them with your attention.

The machines can flood the feed. They can't replace the feeling of a real person who made something real and handed it to you. That's still out there. You just have to choose it on purpose now, because the current won't carry you to it anymore.

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